Naughty Bucket List: Hot Things a Couple Should Do (Adults Only)
If your time in the bedroom with your partner is starting to feel a little dull and boring, or you are just looking to increase the intimacy between in your relationship, it might be time for an overhaul. We have come up with a Naughty Bucket list of 21 items to add some spice to your relationship and help you reconnect with your partner.
What is a sex bucket list? Well, it is a list of raunchy, hot and fun experiences to add to your repertoire! These are sure to spice up your relationship in a safe way, and as you tick them off the list, they will become naughty little secrets between the two of you. What are you waiting for? Read on to reignite the spark and get some satisfaction with your favourite!
#1 Watch each other masturbate for visual stimulation
There are plenty of myths surrounding masturbation, such as doing it too often will cause parts to fall off, or you may have a shortage of orgasms in the future. The truth is, masturbation is not something to be ashamed of and is a natural part of body exploration. Many people in relationships can feel insecure about masturbating in front of their partner, but this is one spicy activity that can be mutually beneficial. Watching each other masturbate is visually pleasing and can help you to learn about each other’s bodies and pleasure points. Masturbating in front of your partner will push you to overcome any shyness, and this newfound confidence will filter to other areas of the bedroom. Plus, it can lead to masturbating each other!
#2 Add toys to make your naughty time even naughtier
When couples are looking to mix things up in the bedroom, sex toys are often one of the first things to be introduced. 45% of people use sex toys with their partner, as they really help to hit those pleasure packed spots. We suggest using them on yourself and each other while stimulating different areas at the same time. If you have ever visited a sex shop, you would have noticed the overwhelming variety on offer. Start with the traditional (yet never boring) vibrator with different intensities and speeds to learn about what works with your body. As your confidence grows, work your way up to butt plugs and dildos. Take care to keep them clean between use, by using a dedicated toy cleaner.
Anal sex. It is one of those things people can’t get enough of, have had a bad experience with or are too scared to try. Why does it have such a bad reputation? Because, it is something which can be painful if done incorrectly. When done right, anal sex can create a whole range of new sensations, and intensely erotic anal orgasms are a real thing. This should definitely be on every couple’s sexy bucket list! To experience everything anal sex has to offer, use plenty of lube and always engage in foreplay. There is nothing worse than not being prepared, and you can start with fingers until you build up confidence. Choose a comfortable position and start slowly. Over time you may even enjoy trying new anal positions.
#4 Take control with domination
“Mr. Grey will see you now”. Domination is a common fantasy as there is something to be said for either taking control, or allowing your partner to control you. If you are interested in trying domination, you don’t have to go the whole way. There is no need to convert a room of your home into a dungeon (unless you want to of course), as you can begin by using handcuffs or by trying your partner to the bed. Dip your toe in the water and discuss your limits before deciding who would prefer to be dominated. You may love it, or hate it but this will be an experience you will never forget. This highly erotic sex act is best performed with someone you trust, and as things progress may even help to fulfill those BDSM role-playing fantasies. Black leather and whips are optional.
#5 Create sensual memories by getting dirty in the car
There is something naughty about doing it in the car, and the safest way to achieve this is in a stationary vehicle. Depending on the size of your car, this can be potentially awkward but that is where a sense of fun and adventure comes in. This is like having the voyeurism of doing it in public, but from the security of your vehicle. If you aren’t feeling flexible enough to go The Full Monty, try pulling over for a BJ. The idea of someone catching you will be a massive turn on. Every time you drive past the sexy spot, you and your partner will be reminded of the naughtiness you got up to. These sensual memories will be something you can reminisce about together.
#6 Fulfil your fantasies with role play
When you have been with someone for a while, your sexual confidence can take a dive. Dressing up and acting out those fantasies with role play can help you rekindle the spark and give you the opportunity to be someone else in the bedroom. Role-playing will push you out of your rut while building trust and intimacy. Fantasies come in all varieties, and it is likely you or your partner have something in mind already. If you are stuck for ideas, there are some go-to themes with costumes readily available at stores and online. Think dirty secretary, naughty nurse or sexy school girl, and drive your partner wild!
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